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What is Collaborative Divorce?

A collaborative divorce is a rather new form of ending a marriage. Developed in the early 1990s, this type of divorce relies on a resolution not based on litigation, but rather, has the divorcing spouses and their attorneys mutually agree on a divorce agreement that both sides deem to be fair. The final divorce terms are reached by both sides agreeing to the Participation Agreement, according to which the divorcing spouses:

  • Develop settlement options
  • Avoid litigation
  • Ensure all discussions relating to the matters of the divorce remain confidential
  • Disclose all relevant information pertaining to the process
  • Are given full control over proceedings
  • Identify their goals and/or interests regarding the divorce

It is also common for the Agreement to involve discussions regarding finances, parenting, and mental health.

A Cooperative Process

Since a collaborative divorce does not rely on litigation, a divorcing couple’s best interests are truly the basis of a resolution. The attorneys overseeing the process are not motivated by the urge to see their client receive the majority of assets, properties, finances, etc. Rather, they work together to ensure that the family as a whole, if the couple has children, benefits from the resolution. Cooperation is the hallmark of the collaborative divorce process.

Benefits The Family As A Whole

Collaboration is widely regarded as the healthiest and most beneficial form of divorce. As it avoids litigation, which can be contentious, collaboration also avoids potential argumentative components that can be seen in conventional divorce proceedings. The attorneys representing both parties aim to help the couple in the following ways:

  • Provide assistance, both emotionally and financially
  • Allow for limited financial and emotional turmoil during the divorce
  • Offer assistance in addressing the needs of children, should there be any, through mutual agreements by the couple
  • Keep conflict to a minimum to ensure the proceedings remain civil
  • Establish a stable post-divorce relationship between the couple

Foremost, both legal counsels aim to hold a hearing that is productive, positive, and reasonable.

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If you are interested in filing for a collaborative divorce, do so with the assistance of an attorney from San Diego’s Fischer & Van Thiel, LLP. Contact one of our attorneys today at 858-935-6211.

Mike's Top FAQs About Divorce

401K plans and divorce

401K plans and divorce

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If my spouse waives his right to my 401k plan, is there any circumstance that the court will still award him half or a portion of my 401k plan?

Answer

It is theoretically possible that a court can disturb an agreement to waive rights to property, but it is unlikely.  Courts will generally treat agreements as contracts, and thus are likely to strike an agreement only if it is unconscionable, induced by fraud, undue influence, duress or is against public policy. The judge cannot “reject,” nullify, or modify the provisions of an agreement merely because of his or her personal belief that a different arrangement should be made.

A marital settlement agreement, or MSA, can be used as a contract between spouses regarding the division of property that would otherwise be subject to community property laws. An MSA is subject to general contract laws, meaning that it can be found invalid if terms are against public policy (which includes, but is not limited to, (a) abrogating the statutory child support duty or impinging on the court’s jurisdiction to award child support, (b) limiting the court’s exercise of child custody jurisdiction, (c) “altering legal relations,” (d) “promoting dissolution,” and (e) providing for “fault”-based penalties at marriage dissolution) . The MSA can also be found invalid if entered into as a result of fraud, duress, menace, undue influence, or other factors which may make the agreement void or invalid.  Generally, an agreement such as the MSA is favored.  Hence, if there are no legal or equitable grounds for rescission or reformation it is binding on the parties and the court without express approval.

Posted in: Divorce, Family Law, Property Division

Can I get child support if I am not getting a divorce?

Can I get child support in California if I am not getting a divorce?

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I have been separated for two years from my wife, and my kids live with me. Can I get support without filing for divorce in California? We have not been living together since our separation, and even file taxes separately.

Answer

You do not need to file for divorce in order to get support. You will need to go through the court to obtain a child support order so you will have to file something. You can contact your local Department of Child support services office and they can help you get started. So while you do not have to file for divorce, you can file for a legal separation. The court needs to know that you two have in fact separated and there is one parent who is the full time provides and therefore in need of support.

Posted in: Child Support, Divorce, Family Law

Can I move out with my daughter before the divorce in California?

Can I move out with my daughter before the divorce in California?

Question Detail

My wife and I are going to divorce, but we have not filed yet. We are always fighting, and my daughter, who is 7, is very stressed with the way we are living. Can I move out with her, if I do not move far away and let him see her all the time? He is not happy with my choice. Is this legal?

Answer

Yes, you can move out with your daughter, assuming there are no court orders already in place regarding custody and visitation. It is important to maintain frequent and continuing contact between the child and the other parent. When the court makes custody and visitation orders they will look highly upon the parent who facilitated contact with the child and the other parent. It is important to make the transition as easy as possible for the child.

Posted in: Divorce, Family Law

Is there a statute of limitations on owed child support?

Question: Is there a statute of limitations on owed child support?

Question Detail

An ex lover of mine (20 years ago) just approached me out of nowhere about getting tested to see if her son is my child. He is 20 and I live in California. I am trying to find the statue of limitations for child support if indeed I take the test and the child turns out to be mine.

Answer

Unless the mother has made a claim for child support with the welfare office or her local Department of child support services office, they cannot now collect from you on child support. Since he is no longer a minor child now that he is emancipated, there are no obligations for child support. You can get tested to see if you are the father, but you do not have to.

If the state has paid out welfare for the child, and it turns out that you are the Father, there can be some potential liability there with having to pay back the state the money they paid out. If this is not an issue, then they cannot now ask you to pay for child support.

 

Posted in: Enforcement, Family Law, Spousal Support / Alimony

Is the opinion of the child ever taken into consideration in a divorce?

Is the opinion of the child ever taken into consideration in a divorce?

Answer

Typically the Courts will take the child’s opinion into consideration at the age of 12. There is no set age, it depends on the maturity level of the child. If a child is of sufficient age and capacity to form an intelligent preference to custody the court can take it into consideration. It is important to note that all judges will rule for what is in the child’s best interests whether it be for the mother or the father.

Posted in: Child Custody, Divorce, Family Law

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