Four Characteristics of a Good Divorce Attorney
In order for a client to have a good chance of securing a favorable divorce agreement, their attorney must exhibit a group of very important characteristics. These factors range from their willingness to negotiate to their ability to strategically execute a plan of action that leaves no room for argument. It doesn’t matter if the case is a highly contested divorce or if you and your spouse are amicably negotiating terms such as child custody/support, asset distribution, or division of property, a highly-skilled attorney who displays the following qualities is the attorney you want by your side.
The fate of each case depends entirely on how the attorney structures a plan of action. For example, specific strategies on how assets should be allocated between his/her client and the other party can be negotiated through mediation, or can be settled through a trial if no agreement can be made. The outline the lawyer develops should always have contingencies in place in case one of his or her strategies should fail.
Genuine Care For Their Client
It’s a fact that many attorneys are more interested in the paycheck that accompanies a successful outcome than they are in their client’s well-being. An honest and hard-working lawyer should not be intimidated by a long divorce battle and encourage you to settle for less than you deserve. The level of care should remain the same before, during, and after a case.
Confidence Is Key
Confidence should not be confused with arrogance. A confident attorney will know when the time is right to be assertive, when to compromise, or when the situation calls for more defensive strategies. The ability to remain unemotional is also an important trait a lawyer should possess. It isn’t uncommon for both attorneys to engage in verbal arguments, and during these times, the representing counsel should not make concessions unless it is in their client’s best interests.
Openness To Negotiation
Negotiation is one of the founding principles of divorce law. A lawyer who is effective with words and can effectively persuade the other party is invaluable. For example, the cost and length of a contested divorce can be significantly reduced with the help of an experienced negotiator and a willingness to compromise, making the entire process much easier and less expensive overall.
Divorce is not always easy, but the San Diego divorce attorneys from the law office of Fischer & Van Thiel, LLP, are committed to making the process as quick and simple as possible. Contact them today at 858.935.6211.
Mike's Top FAQs About Divorce401K plans and divorce
401K plans and divorce
If my spouse waives his right to my 401k plan, is there any circumstance that the court will still award him half or a portion of my 401k plan?
It is theoretically possible that a court can disturb an agreement to waive rights to property, but it is unlikely. Courts will generally treat agreements as contracts, and thus are likely to strike an agreement only if it is unconscionable, induced by fraud, undue influence, duress or is against public policy. The judge cannot “reject,” nullify, or modify the provisions of an agreement merely because of his or her personal belief that a different arrangement should be made.
A marital settlement agreement, or MSA, can be used as a contract between spouses regarding the division of property that would otherwise be subject to community property laws. An MSA is subject to general contract laws, meaning that it can be found invalid if terms are against public policy (which includes, but is not limited to, (a) abrogating the statutory child support duty or impinging on the court’s jurisdiction to award child support, (b) limiting the court’s exercise of child custody jurisdiction, (c) “altering legal relations,” (d) “promoting dissolution,” and (e) providing for “fault”-based penalties at marriage dissolution) . The MSA can also be found invalid if entered into as a result of fraud, duress, menace, undue influence, or other factors which may make the agreement void or invalid. Generally, an agreement such as the MSA is favored. Hence, if there are no legal or equitable grounds for rescission or reformation it is binding on the parties and the court without express approval.
Can I get child support in California if I am not getting a divorce?
I have been separated for two years from my wife, and my kids live with me. Can I get support without filing for divorce in California? We have not been living together since our separation, and even file taxes separately.
You do not need to file for divorce in order to get support. You will need to go through the court to obtain a child support order so you will have to file something. You can contact your local Department of Child support services office and they can help you get started. So while you do not have to file for divorce, you can file for a legal separation. The court needs to know that you two have in fact separated and there is one parent who is the full time provides and therefore in need of support.
Can I move out with my daughter before the divorce in California?
My wife and I are going to divorce, but we have not filed yet. We are always fighting, and my daughter, who is 7, is very stressed with the way we are living. Can I move out with her, if I do not move far away and let him see her all the time? He is not happy with my choice. Is this legal?
Yes, you can move out with your daughter, assuming there are no court orders already in place regarding custody and visitation. It is important to maintain frequent and continuing contact between the child and the other parent. When the court makes custody and visitation orders they will look highly upon the parent who facilitated contact with the child and the other parent. It is important to make the transition as easy as possible for the child.
Question: Is there a statute of limitations on owed child support?
An ex lover of mine (20 years ago) just approached me out of nowhere about getting tested to see if her son is my child. He is 20 and I live in California. I am trying to find the statue of limitations for child support if indeed I take the test and the child turns out to be mine.
Unless the mother has made a claim for child support with the welfare office or her local Department of child support services office, they cannot now collect from you on child support. Since he is no longer a minor child now that he is emancipated, there are no obligations for child support. You can get tested to see if you are the father, but you do not have to.
If the state has paid out welfare for the child, and it turns out that you are the Father, there can be some potential liability there with having to pay back the state the money they paid out. If this is not an issue, then they cannot now ask you to pay for child support.
Is the opinion of the child ever taken into consideration in a divorce?
Typically the Courts will take the child’s opinion into consideration at the age of 12. There is no set age, it depends on the maturity level of the child. If a child is of sufficient age and capacity to form an intelligent preference to custody the court can take it into consideration. It is important to note that all judges will rule for what is in the child’s best interests whether it be for the mother or the father.